Pastor Steven Becker • February 20, 2025

5 Tips to Build a Bible Routine


1.  Set a time.


  Schedule it. I realize that words like plan and schedule might give an aneurism to some. Setting a plan is really saying, “This is a big priority in my life and I want to make sure that I get it done. I don’t want it to fall through the cracks, so I better set aside time to do this.”


  Choose a time of day that is best for you. Morning is a great way to start the day. Some say, “Bible before breakfast”. Maybe you are at your best at night. Let me encourage you to focus more on the quality of your time in the Word than the time of day. You’re not a better Christian because you read your Bible at 5 a.m., and you are not a lesser Christian because you read your Bible at 8 p.m. once the kids are asleep.


2.  Choose your weapon.


  Remove distractions. Turn on that “do not disturb” setting on your phone. You’ll be amazed at how many things will come to mind during this time to distract you. Make a conscious effort.


  Choose your weapon. What “Sword” will you use? Your family Bible or an iPad? I’ll admit that I have changed in recent years. Because of the “do not disturb” setting, I read more digitally now than with my physical Bible.


3.  Set a goal.


  Don’t “wing it”. If you don’t have a goal of what book you want to read or how much you want to read, then you are setting yourself up for failure. A friend of mine use to tell me that he just opened the Bible every day and whatever page it landed on determined what he would read. Can this be good? Sure. Is it best? No.


  Choose a starting and stopping point.  If your goal is to read and study a book, set a time frame that you’ll dedicate to that study so you can move on to another book at some point. If your goal is to read the N.T. or the whole Bible in a year, then there are plans for this.


  For newer Christians, I’d advise reading the Gospels and the New Testament. Another good practice is to read a chapter in Proverbs every day, but I think you’d benefit from reading this in addition to the former readings.

For most Christians, I’d advise reading the Bible through every year. The old way works. I love the practicality of the N.T., but there is still much to glean from the O.T. Personally, I love reading through the Bible by reading a couple chapters in the O.T. and reading a chapter in the N.T. each day, along with Proverbs and Psalms for wisdom and encouragement daily.


  Reevaluate often. This is YOUR walk. You can change it up and alter your plans whenever you’d like. Do you want to read more prophecy? Do you want to study the life of Elijah? Do you want to read through the Bible in 90 days? Make it your own.


4.  Be accountable.


  Choose someone close to you. Your pastor or some speaker that you know is probably not the best person. Be accountable to your spouse, a sibling, a close friend, a Sunday School teacher, or someone that you are close to.


  Choose someone that sharpens you.  It would not be wise to be accountable to someone you just led to the Lord. Maybe you offer yourself as an accountability partner to them, but you need someone that you know that sharpens your walk with the Lord.


5.  Carry the Bible with you.


  What the “big idea”?  Every time you spend time with the Lord, He is trying to make you to be more like Him. Do you remember what you read today? Have you thought about it? Did God bring someone in your life throughout the day that is connected to some truth that you read? There is a purpose in your walk and it is to be carried with you in your life.


  Carry it in your heart. Do you really expect me to bring my Bible to every appointment throughout the day? Proverbs tells us to take the truths of God with us in our hearts. Ask yourself, “What did I read today? What stood out to me? What encouraged me? What is something I need to study more? What can I think about throughout the day?”


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By Pastor Steven Becker July 11, 2025
A chain is only as strong as its weakest link. The story of Achan in Joshua 7 is undoubtedly the greatest reminder of this principle. Joshua and the nation of Israel were gaining momentum as they crossed the Jordan River and were ready to claim the territory God promised them. However, as they went up against Ai, thirty-six soldiers lost their lives in a battle that seemed like a walk in the park. The reason? God wasn’t going to bless the nation because there was a weak link in the chain and his name was Achan. Achans are likely in every church in the world. Achan is a teenager that is forced to attend but has a dark heart. Achan is a spouse that comes to appease his/her family but is counting down the minutes until he/she can leave church. Achan is a leader that is going through the motions but relies on talent and familiarity over God’s help. Achan is a pastor that can preach a sermon but is distant in his personal walk with God. Achan is anyone that appears to be solid and sold out on the outside but is empty and barren on the inside. The severity of the Achan syndrome cannot be overstated. It can cripple a good and thriving ministry when one bad egg is in the midst of the bunch. Your job is not to become the bounty hunter of your church to track down Achan. Your job is to be on guard that you never become an Achan and hinder what God can and desires to do in the assembly of your church. What are some signs of the spirit of Achan entering your life? 1. Hidden sin. Harboring unconfessed sin in your heart is one of the surest ways to hinder God’s blessing and to bring God’s judgment. When you enter the presence of God, that is time for confession. Don’t allow your sins to be kept from the Lord. 2. A bitter spirit. Bitterness is a cancer. The truth is that Satan will use any person, any conservation, and any experience he can to get you bitter at God. People blame the church and the people for all the hardships, scars, and burdens of their lives. It is true that people hurt people, even in church. However, the sad result is that instead of dealing with that person, that person will use that experience as an excuse to get bitter and God and His church. 3. A contentious spirit. Church is a place to build one another, not for tearing down. It is a place to be a help, not a hurt. It is a place to see that you don’t have to be a victim, but you can live victorious with God. It amazes me how many come to church with a contentious spirit. I realize, as the pastor, I may get the brunt of this, but I have a hard time wrapping my head around someone getting ready to come to church with the same attitude that Muhammed Ali had when he was getting his hands wrapped up before a fight. 4. A disconnected heart The heart shows up during the song service. It’s hard to fake joy, especially when you’re singing about the salvation, glory, or love of Jesus. Staring at the song leader with your arms crossed is a good way to kill the spirit in a service. We’ve had people come that I honestly never saw move their lips in the song service. Maybe some are fearful of their lack of talent, or maybe it is because their heart has no desire to sing at all of the glory of God. It may be that victory is around the corner, but defeat comes because Achan is hindering the hand of God. Are you an Achan?
By Pastor Steven Becker June 27, 2025
THE GREATEST WORDS EVER SPOKEN IN A CAFETERIA Life has a way of flipping upside down when you become an adult. When you were a child, you gave a fuss to your parents because you didn’t want to take a nap. Now, you give a fuss to your children because you want to take a nap. When you were a child, you threw a fit because you didn’t want to eat all of your food. As an adult, you’re hoping that there are seconds so that you can eat even more, even if you shouldn’t. “SECONDS!” That one word brought a feeling of delight to myself as a college student in the dining hall in Bible college. On a tight budget and with a youthful body, a pb&j just didn’t cut it for dinner on the job site. I lived by the see-food diet – if I saw there was food, then I ate the food. Many of us (mostly guys…but not all), would rush up to the counter in the college cafeteria like hungry puppies begging for another bite. GOD’S CALLING FOR A SPIRITUAL APPETITE When you come to church, I want you to think of just obliterating your favorite homecooked meal and the joy that you feel when your mother asks, “Do you want seconds? There is plenty.” The Word of God and truth is described in several places in the Bible as bread, milk, water, and physical nourishment. We even see God tell certain men to eat His Words. If you don’t believe me, look up Jeremiah 15:16, Ezekiel 3:1-3, and Revelation 10:9-11 . Of course, this is figurative language, but God uses this terminology for a reason. In Hebrews 5:12-14 , we see the people being rebuked for not growing in their appetite towards the Word of God. They were still on a baby, milk-based diet when they should have developed their spiritual molars to chew on a juicy ribeye. Instead, they were stuck to their formula bottles that reeked of their anorexic disorder. A BIG APPETITE We find an example of a people in Acts that had a big appetite for the Bible. They were not satisfied with taste-testing the Bible. They were like a new convert at a Baptist potluck in the south balancing multiple plates while going through the line. They wanted to consume it. Acts 17:10-11 tells us, “These {the Bereans} were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.” Note – the quotation is mine. What was so great about these Bereans? When they went to church and heard the preacher get up and boldly preach from the Book, they went home and they continued on in that study. They wanted seconds after they were fed the main course in the house of God. It wasn’t enough just to hear it from a man, they wanted to enjoy it all over again in their homes. THE BEREAN EFFECT Let me suggest some great reasons to follow this practice: 1- You will learn more – Research shows that your understanding of a subject increases through repetition, but also through different means of learning. Listening, reading, and writing are different ways to learn something. If you practice all three – listen to the preacher, read it for yourself, and take notes – then you will learn more than those sitting on padded pews with nothing in their lap except for their phone in their hand. Think of what will happen if you repeat this at home while you get your seconds! 2- You won’t be deceived – The latter part of those verses said that the reason these Bereans did this was so that they could see “whether those things were so”. They didn’t want to just take the preacher at his word, they wanted to see it for themselves. We would have a lot less of the false teachers in our day if we had more Bereans in our churches. 3- You will develop a personal walk – Instead of sitting in awe of what your preacher learned from the Bible, you must learn to exercise your own spiritual muscles at some point if you want to be strong spiritually. Think of a workout routine. The first week is rough. You are very sore and a little discouraged. Then, you get into a groove. You can’t expect to be Mr. Olympia the first time you open the Book. You must stick with it day after day. Go feast on those seconds. You’ll never consume too many calories with God. In fact, the more you consume of God’s nutrition, the better off you’ll be. Be like the Bereans!
By Pastor Steven Becker June 20, 2025
In my last post ( link here ), we looked at Jesus’ first miracle and how the servants in the miracle saw something that the others at the wedding in John 2 didn’t see. Right away, God shows us that joy of serving Him. 1. Service is provided through a local, N.T. church. 2. Service enables every Christian to be involved in the ministry. You are not “in the ministry” because you get your paycheck from the church. You are in the ministry if you are serving at the capacity that you are able to. Within every individual is a calling to find purpose in life. I’m telling you that God put that desire and hunger in your heart, and the way that you feed that hunger is by serving in the church. This is how you can make a difference every week! 3. Service connects you with others. Peter & John, Paul & Silas, Aquila & Priscilla, Paul & Timothy, Jesus and the disciples – when you think of servants in the church, you see people that are linked to other servants. I have found that some of the most productive times that I’ve had bonding with someone is by serving together on a work day, going soul winning together, or helping with a church event. You don’t just have to connect over coffee staring at each other over a table. Serve together! 4. Service lets you see the miraculous. Only the servants saw behind the curtain in Cana. Even though the others received the blessing of tasting Jesus’ personal, organic, NON-ALCOHOLIC grape juice, only the servants knew how they got that juice in the first place. I can see them looking at each other, grinning from ear to ear as they watched the host of guests sipping on the delicious beverage Jesus provided. When the night ended, everyone probably forgot about the juice, but the servants never forgot this day because they were there to see it happen. I can tell you stories upon stories of what God has done behind the scenes during big days, with the church finances, and on many occasions serving the Lord with good people. When you come to church and get to enjoy the day, sure you may be well rested, but you’re not going to have the joy at the end of the day that the servants will have. Before you wait until it fits your schedule to finally get involved in the church, consider John 2 . Let me also tell you that you don’t need a title to serve. Somebody needs to clean the church. Are you really going to make your church hire a janitorial team or burn out a staff member when you can sweep, mow, prune, or clean a window? I believe the greatest area of service could be soul winning . No church has enough soul winners, and there is no cap on how many can be in this ministry. There can only be so many teachers, ushers, helpers, bus drivers, but you can find an area of service to join in on. Take the plunge and join the team!
By Pastor Steven Becker June 13, 2025
Have the workings of Jesus ever perplexed you? I know…the epi demy of a rhetorical question. In our family’s Bible time, we have been going through the miracles of Jesus. I want my children to know that Jesus is God and there’s nothing He can’t do! The beginning of this study, however, is less groundbreaking than you’d expect if you wrote the script yourself. Of all places for Jesus to do His first miracle, He chose a wedding. Not the slums, not the drug house, not the leper colony, but a wedding. And the miracle that He performed was turning a plain liquid into a tastier liquid. By no means am I trying to minimize the miracle at the event in John 2 , or question the doings of Jesus, but this does cause me to wonder why He chose this event and this miracle. My favorite part of the miracle, though, is not what Jesus did, but who He used to do it with Him. As this miracle is unraveling, Jesus’ ministry is welcome with not-so-open arms. In fact, nothing even tells us that many knew that this was a miracle that took place. The governor is noted to complain that they waited to bring out the good stuff at the end instead of the beginning – “…thou hast kept the good wine until now.” (John 2:10) This became standard for Jesus’ ministry moving forward. Some were helped. Some were bystanders. Some praised Him. Some complained, mocked, criticized, or attacked. In the middle of this miracle, I wish to draw your attention to a parenthetical phrase that the God of Heaven gives to us as He unveils this truth. John 2:9 tells us that most of the guests at that wedding were completely oblivious to the miracle that happened that day, but some were fortunate to be the first account witnesses of this supernatural event. John 2:9 tells us “(but the servants which drew the water knew;)” . God wanted you to know that there are some things only servants know . Church is a lot like a sporting event. A few are happy to play and make an impact on the outcome and the masses are happy to watch them do it. Let me challenge you to not miss one of the reasons of the church and the joys of being involved in a church, and that is SERVICE. 1. Service is provided through a local, N.T. church. Ephesians 4:11-16 lays out the purpose of the gifts that God has designed you with. It is for the ministry. Your gifts may help you to land a job or launch your career. You may think that your career isn’t aligned with your gifts and that you’ve missed your opportunity. Friend, the reason for your gifts is not only to provide for your needs, but to make a difference in your church. Mechanically minded people make great servants on the media team. Encouragers make great greeters and ushers. Servants make great custodial workers. You may wonder if you’ll ever use your gifts, and I’m here to tell you that you can, but you may have been looking in the wrong place. The church is a place for you to use the gifts that God has given you to serve Him!
By Pastor Steven Becker June 7, 2025
Sports is a way of American life. There is no doubt that sports has become a god to many in our land, but we know that there are certain traits learned in sports that can be good for life like submission to authority, teamwork, working towards a future goal, physical discipline, and more. I fondly remember attending many sports games growing up. My brothers played for the local high school team, so Friday nights were under the stadium lights in the fall months. Sports games can be electrifying! Fans paint their faces, make their own signage, wear the team colors, and hoot and holler until they’re blue in the face. How is it that church is the event that it seems that people are the least excited to attend? Can you imagine if we brought just half of the heart and excitement to church as we do to a ball game that has no bearing on our lives. Someone said, “The next time pastor asks you to get as excited at church as you do at a sports game, don’t be surprised when Joe shows up shirtless with his chest and face painted.” I’ll admit that they are not the same thing, but let’s agree on this – we can do better with our spirit at church. Sports is all about atmosphere. The moment that you pull into the parking lot, you see the jerseys, the flags on the trucks, the burgers grilling at the tailgate parties. When you walk into the stadium, the workers are there to greet you, direct you, and sell you with their paraphernalia. The music is playing, the intro is planned, the smoke cannons are stocked, and they are ready to make you feel out of place if you are anything but jumping out of your chair with excitement. How can we bring this kind of atmosphere into the church? I’m not promoting fireworks, smoke machines, and foam fingers to raise when the pastor says something that you like. But the church shouldn’t feel like a funeral. It should feel like heaven on earth! 1. Walk in with a smile. Don’t make it somebody’s mission to get you out of the dumps. Put a smile on your face and realize the joy and privilege of being a part of the body of Christ. 2. Greet as many people as you can. I can’t spend all of my time with just one person on Sunday. There are too many that I want to greet. It may be one minute, or it may be five minutes, but I want to spend time with as many people as I can. 3. Find the newbies. Newcomers feel out of place. Make it your mission that they don’t feel this way. Bring the spirit to them that this place is “the place to be”. If you see someone sitting alone staring at the wall, there is your opportunity. 4. Sing out. What I dislike about modern worship songs is that they are hard to follow. I have many more issues with modern Christian music, but the beauty of the hymns is that they are easy to sing along with for the most part (insert – Wonderful Grace of Jesus). Be the one to set the tone that at this church, we sing out! 5. Give cheerfully. This is a Bible command. Offerings shouldn’t be awkward or disingenuous. This should be a time of worship as we give God things that are close to our hearts. 6. Preach the preacher. Laugh at the corny jokes. Nod in agreement. Say “amen” if you like it, or maybe if you’re just trying to keep your neighbor awake that’s nodding off. Don’t be a statue in your seat. People can’t see your heart. Wear your heart on your sleeve in the service. 7. Use the altar. If you’re never using the altar, then I guess you’ve made all the decisions you need to in church. I’m not offended at those who don’t use the altar, but can you imagine the impact that it would make in the service if 75% of the people genuinely went forward every service? What an impact that would make! 8. Stay and fellowship. One of the earmarks of a healthy church is what they do after church is dismissed. There are many, many times that I’m not the last one at church. Our church family stays late and spends time together longer than I’d expect most churches to. But I love it! You don’t have to be a night owl, but don’t be racing for the door so you can be the “rush” out of the parking lot. Stand around, talk to a handful of people, find someone that you’ll make it a point to engage with. Let’s make church a place that people feel the excitement as soon as they pull into the parking lot!
By Pastor Steven Becker May 31, 2025
As a hammer is to a carpenter, as a paint brush is to a painter, as a pen is to a writer, and as an instrument is to a musician, so is the Bible to the Christian. In every service, I will say, “Please take your Bibles and turn to…” During this simple instruction, I find that many are read to be engaged, some are embarrassed that they’ve forgotten their roadmap, and some are lost at the order of what we do in church. May I encourage you to bring your Bible, use your Bible, and grow in the Bible as you come to church. Yes, this may seem rather elementary, but I would argue that if less and less are even bringing their Bible to church, then surely less and less are using their Bible at home. Here are some basic thoughts on why it can be important and how you can make church more meaningful to you by simply bringing your Bible with you: Buy a nice Bible that you can be proud of – This could make you excited to use something you’ve invested into. Carry your Bible with you – Feel the physical presence of the Bible in your hands. You should feel lost without it, just like if you did not have your phone on you. Treat your Bible with care – This is one of the most important things in your life. Treat it like the prized possession it is. Turn in your Bible every time the preacher instructs – Be active in church and ready to learn. Mark in your Bible as you learn and grow – Mark it in church with outlines, notes, definitions, sayings. Underline, circle, highlight, and emphasize with whatever system you choose. Talk about the Bible at church – Conversations are more often about carnal things than spiritual things. You just heard the same message, so why not talk about it with your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. They may have gleaned something that you didn’t, and you may have some insight that could help them. Study your Bible at home with what you learned in church – Don’t let the study end at church. If you want to learn more, or if you’re maybe confused about a topic, then take it upon yourself to learn more. You won’t be deceived by false teaching this way and you’ll grow more this way. Let us not underestimate the power of having the Bible with us in the house of God. After all, the hymn book, the potluck spread, the bulletins, and the offering envelopes are not the primary reason for our worship. The Bible is!
By Pastor Steven Becker May 23, 2025
Last week, I pointed out that the various service times have a distinct purpose in a church. One is not necessarily more important than the others, but each have their distinction. Rather than view the service times as slots that we can choose that best fit our schedule, I encourage you to adopt the “ Four to Flourish ” mentality and commit yourself to being faithful to God’s house at every opportunity available. Here are the purposes for our four regular services at our church: Sunday School – educating (discussed in last post ) Sunday Morning – evangelizing (discussed in last post ) Sunday Evening – edifying  My pastor taught me early on to love and to be very purposeful with Sunday evening services. Though I am big on having classes for different age groups (especially children), I am also big on having everyone in the main auditorium once a week. Aside from our nursery workers, this is the one time a week that I have with our teachers, volunteers, and young people. If I could describe it this way, I would call this service our Church Family Time. If we have business to discuss, this is the time to do it. If we have new members joining the family, this is the time we recognize them. If there are problems to address, whether by preaching or by a separate discussion, this is the time I’ll do it. I am the least concerned with the clock in this service because there are no other classes to coordinate our exit with. The focus is the building up of God’s people. This is where preaching hits more of the “rubber meets the road” kind of mark. If I could describe if more from my perspective, this is the time that I look to be a shepherd and to sense the need and to address the needs of the flock that God has placed me over. I’m here to tell you this – if you’re missing Sunday nights, then you’re missing out. While we have seen our biggest days on Sunday mornings, we have had our most special, soul-stirring services on Sunday nights. Midweek – educating, edifying & exhorting Too much can happen in a week’s time. Monday comes and the Monday blues drown out quickly what God did in your heart the day before. This may be a negative approach, but I know that the vast majority of our people work with lost, carnal, and wicked people. There is a great need for us to reconnect during the week. We moved our service times to Thursday a few years ago, but many hold to the Wednesday service time. Whatever day it is, there is a day to reconnect. I put three traits here, because all three can apply. A seasoned preacher that I respect greatly, Pastor Jerry Ross, encouraged me before my first year of pastoring to preach through Bible books. While I was hesitant, I have spent the greater part of my time during our midweek service to preach through Bible books. Sometimes, it’s more teachy. Other times, it’s very practical. Whatever I’m going through, he encouraged me to always focus on at least “one great truth” (the inspiration for the title for the devotionals that I’ve written). The midweek service is not a marathon for us. We have other classes. We don’t have choir. We have a special and an offering still. Less dress up for this service than any other (that doesn’t bother me, but rather encourages me because many are hurrying in from work). The week is just too long to leave the church on the sidelines from Sunday to the next Sunday. Does church deserve our best? Do we really think that giving God one hour per week only to rush out to lunch and a ball game afterwards is the kind of Christianity that will change lives and change the world? If you’re not used to the “ Four to Flourish ” schedule, let me encourage you to add ONE MORE service per week. Sunday School is easy because you just have to come one hour earlier in most churches. I want to encourage you to attend Sunday evening, or the Midweek service if you already attend all day Sunday . What you get out of church will be determined by what you put in to the church.
By Pastor Steven Becker May 16, 2025
Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:” Everything we do in life should be on purpose and have a purpose. This is why I feel so strongly about the video game epidemic with the men in our society. Video games are ripping men of their purpose causing them to waste hours upon hours in front of screen that serves a false reality to their sense of accomplishment because they beat a game. While I can’t speak for every church in how they structure and implement their services, I will give you the purposes for our services that we offer. On the back of our church tract that we use to invite people to our church and on our website, you will find four service times each week. Most people are conditioned (because of the one and done mentality with church) to view this as an option of choosing the best time slot to get your “church time” in. Let me be gentle, but clear – your attendance is not a one hour slot to fill out every week that fits your plans and schedule. God’s house should have a greater priority in your life than watching a ball game on the TV or sleeping in. My purpose in these next two blog posts are found in the title, Four to Flourish. You get out of church what you put in to the church. The more you go, the better off you’ll be. I’m here to gently, yet strongly push you to attend all four services and to flourish in your Christian walk. The service times are not menu items to choose what you’ll take and leave, but rather they are opportunities for you to become more edified, more engaged, and more stirred in your heart for the Lord. Here are the purposes for our four regular services at our church: Sunday School – educating Sunday School has been around for a long time. Mature, faithful Christians are chosen in the church to study the Bible each week and teach the Word of God to a specific age group. I love this format for several reasons, but there are 2-3 very important reasons for this. One of those is that you get several people in the church studying the Bible to teach it to others. If you’ve done this, then you know that you learn more by doing this than you probably have just studying for your own benefit. Another great reason is that it provides teaching to people at their stage of life. I led a young adult class in our church. This is a stage of life that we are very weak at in most of our churches. We have classes for children according to their age group so that they can understand God’s Word at their level. Our teachers are instructed to focus heavily on Bible stories for kids. This educates children on God’s Word. They have to learn it before they can believe it, and children are hungry for knowledge. If you’ve ever tried teaching a teenager and a kindergartener at the same time, then you can understand the challenge of combining various age groups. Another great reason for this is that it creates smaller groups of people so that people feel less “lost” and more connected when they come to church. Being a part of a class makes them feel like they’re a part of something. Sunday Morning – evangelizing Without a doubt, this is the largest service in any church in America with few exceptions. The old way told us to count our church attendance by counting the Sunday School crowd. Those days are long gone. The time that people come is for the late morning service. Don’t get me wrong, I love this service! We are prepared for newcomers, young Christians, regulars that are still trying to fit in at our church, and faithful servants that provide music and serve in a variety of capacities to reach others with the gospel. My preaching is always gospel-centered in this service. Not every message is a gospel message, but every message I preach here, I include the gospel. This is also the time that we emphasize a plea for salvation more than any other service. This is the BIG DAY service time, and the time that I am more concerned than ever to shake new hands, be available, make conversations, and win people to Christ. For the sake of keeping this blog to the readable size that I strive for, we will discuss the other two service times in the church and their purposes. See you in Sunday School this Sunday!
By Pastor Steven Becker May 9, 2025
The church is not in hiding. It is well-known, understood, and seen in public as a way of life in American culture. It is a huge part of the history and the current state of our country. I read these statistics in an article confirming my assumptions – “There are 356,000 religious congregations. That’s about 113 per county. There’s about 1 congregation for every 1000 Americans. For reference, there are 13,400 McDonalds and about 16,000 Starbucks.” That is no insignificant number. We used to live .7 miles away from our church, and we still passed another church on our route to our church. While this may encourage you, we have to follow this reality up with more questions – “Is America better than she was 100 years ago?”, “Are we more Christian?”, “Do Christians even seem more Christian?” . With the influx of congregations in our land, would it not be reasonable to wonder where the disconnect is? If we have so many churches, why is there not a greater influence of biblical values? These are fair questions to ask given the statistics that seem to paint the picture that America is more Christian than ever before. I’ll admit that this is not a singular issue, but I’d like to address one point of error that MOST of the modern American church misses. One of the underlying problems is that church is more of a hobby than a way of life. And this isn’t at the fault of the people, but the leaders of these so-called churches. How can I make this claim? The average church in your area and mine do their 1-2 hour “worship” time with a 15–20-minute motivational TED talk and then break until the following week. Churches are having less church time than ever before, and the enemy is moving in as a result. Sunday School, Sunday evenings, and midweek services may as well be as ancient as the dinosaur age. Hebrews 10:25 exhorts us to assemble with God’s people “so much the more” . God wants us to have more church, not less. Here's the reality - the more you dedicate yourself to a task, the better chance you have to be successful in that task. Take dieting for example. You can eat one good meal per week on Monday (because everyone knows that all good diets start on Monday), but what will happen if you eat fast food and junk food the other six days? That diet won’t be very successful. What will happen if you only workout one day per week? Name me anything that you can do for one hour per week and make a central focus in your life. You can’t. We call those hobbies, not lifestyles. You are what you give your time to, and if we’re giving less and less of ourselves to the church, should we really be surprised to see the trend that has made us more churched than ever before, but just as carnal as ever before? Even if churches do meet other days of the week, it’s an activity, rehearsal, or for recreation. These are things that we include in our church as well, but more activities never changed lives. The Word of God changes lives! And when the Word of God is treated like an occasional recreation that we enjoy than it will soon be an old relic that speaks of what use to be, rather than what is. The answer? Leaders have their part to offer opportunities of services to attend, places of service, fellowships for fellow believers, and other avenues to connect us to serve God and others. But you can have a part in this too. Churches are changing because people are changing. If Christians want more of the church, then we’d have more open doors on Sunday evening and in the midweek. Christians are as carnal as ever, so churches have bowed down to the masses and have followed suit. This is not a message of doom and gloom, but certainly one of alarm. I believe that there is hope, and I know we have a part to play in how we care for the wonderful place that we call church.
By Pastor Steven Becker April 30, 2025
A Special Place Church. I love that word. I love what it represents. I love what my mind thinks of when I hear the word. I believe the church is a special place. I grew up in church, so I’m a “church kid” if you’re in to labeling it. I’m not bitter about it. I’m don’t need therapy because of it. I’m not in need of deconstruction as a result of it. I’m blessed to have had the privilege to be raised in church. The church is a beautiful, exciting, and edifying place to us as believers! We’re Not All the Same If you invited me to your family’s Christmas party with all of your relatives, I would feel a little out of place. You may go to grandma and grandpa’s house every year with the whole clan, but as a newcomer, I would be uneasy. I wouldn’t know if I should keep my shoes on or take them off. I’d ask before opening the fridge to get a drink. If I had a ball cap, I’d take it off just in case. I think this is a similar feeling that newcomers have when they come to church. People are comfortable in what we are familiar with. Regulars may know when to sit, when to stand, where the classes are, and when to say “amen”. Newcomers will often just sit back and watch. Where there is unfamiliarity, there is an uneasiness that we all feel. A Clear Challenge I believe that the church is clearly described and modeled in the New Testament as a physical, local place, not just an idea or symbolic term. Paul admonishes Timothy this way, “These things write I unto thee, hoping to come unto thee shortly: But if I tarry long , that thou mayest know how thou oughtest to behave thyself in the house of God , which is the church of the living God, the pillar and ground of the truth.” (I Timothy 3:14-15) We need to know how to behave ourselves when we come to church. If you are familiar with golf, there are all kinds of rules, but many of them are what we would call unwritten rules. You don’t walk in the line of someone else that is putting. You take your glove off when you putt. You stop moving and stay quiet when one is hitting. You use a tool to repair divots on the green. Generally, you fix one or two extra as a courtesy on the green. You are expected to keep a steady pace of play or you should let the groups behind you move forward. These may seem odd to you if you’ve never golfed before, but if you’re a golfer, you know that these are very standard. I want to use these next few blogs to familiarize all of us with some thoughts, tips, and even some personal opinions on how we are to behave and how our behavior can make church more beneficial to every person. Church is a special and sacred place. America has lost her way with how we represent God in the church. I pray that this will stir some thoughts and challenge your approach with your church.
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